For reviewers
You already do this for free.
Charge for the advice you're giving your friends at brunch.
The people already doing it.
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Four formats. Pick what fits you.
Start with one. Add the others as you go. You don’t have to offer all four.
- Text review. Written breakdown of photos, prompts, and strategy. Typical price: $20–$50.
- Video review. Screen-record yourself reacting to the profile. $40–$90.
- Live 1-on-1. Scheduled video call, real Q&A. $70–$150.
- Mock Chat. 24-hour texting simulator — you role-play a fresh match for the dater and grade them with a Texting Report Card (Banter, Pacing & Escalation, Engagement). Unique to RMH. $25–$75.
- Mock Date. Live 30-minute Google Meet video roleplay (20 min in character + 10 min coaching). You grade the dater with a Post-Date Report Card (Conversation Flow, Body Language, Flirting & Vibe). Unique to RMH. $50–$120.
You keep 80%. And the profile is yours.
Every approved reviewer gets a public profile at tryrmh.com/@yourhandle — the kind of link you drop in your Instagram bio, TikTok, or linktree. Bookings come straight to you. We never mark up your rate.
Your own link
tryrmh.com/@yourhandle — built to share outside RMH. Optimized for reach.
Insights that matter
Profile views, package conversion, repeat clients, rating, monthly revenue.
Direct messages
Clients ask follow-ups after a review. Keeps repeat bookings flowing to you.
In-app discovery
Specialty tags and home city put you in front of daters who filter for you.
Your audience, your traffic. If you already post about dating, your profile link turns views into bookings without a funnel. Creators on RMH treat it like a storefront — pin it, promote it, send people straight to it.
The money.
You set each package price. The net is shown before you publish so there are no surprises.
Example month
12 video reviews at $85 each = $1,020 gross. Net after the 20% fee: $816.
Most part-time reviewers land between $400 and $1,500/month. Top earners clear more — they’re fast, specific, and have a 4.5+ rating.
How you’re paid. Through Stripe Connect. Earnings accrue in your wallet. Withdraw to your bank account weekly (or on demand for a small fee). US reviewers receive a 1099 at year-end if they cross the IRS threshold.
Three kinds of people review here.
- Everyday daters who notice everything and can say why. Most of the roster. No following, no credentials needed.
- Dating coaches who sell full programs elsewhere but use RMH for single-review engagements without the packaging work.
- Influencers and creators whose audience overlaps with the daters on RMH. Names like Tylee Milan, Sam Song Li, and Maggie Sin.
Who this isn’t for.
- Full-time from day one. Most reviewers do this as side income — a few hours a week, maybe a weekend afternoon. Plan accordingly.
- Anyone who needs to be polite. Daters book RMH because their friends were already too gentle. Specific beats nice.
- Anyone going off-grid for a week without pausing their profile. Three missed SLAs and you’re off the roster — this is how we keep the marketplace trustworthy for the daters paying for it.
Apply in under 10 minutes.
The application lives inside the app. You’ll need 2–4 photos, a short bio, what you want to review (pick one or more of the four formats), and what you want to charge. RMH reviews every application by hand — expect a response in 2–5 business days.
Questions from people thinking about applying
Who gets accepted?
People who can say something specific about a profile — why a photo reads try-hard, why a prompt is generic, what a stronger opener looks like. Age 18+. A background in photography, writing, styling, or coaching helps but isn't required. Everyday daters in a clear demographic get accepted all the time.
How much will I actually make?
Most part-time reviewers clear $400–$1,500 a month. Full-time-adjacent reviewers clear more. You set the price per package (text, video, live 1-on-1, Mock Chat, Mock Date). You keep 80%. The net is shown before you publish the package — no surprise deductions.
How long does approval take?
2–5 business days. Every application is manually reviewed. We don't batch-approve.
How do I get paid?
Stripe Connect. Earnings land in your reviewer wallet; withdraw to your bank biweekly (or on demand for a small fee). US reviewers get a 1099 at year-end if they cross the IRS threshold.
Is there a minimum time commitment?
No. Work when you want. Pause your profile when you don't. The only commitment: once you accept a review, you have 24–72 hours to deliver (depends on format). Miss three SLAs and you lose reviewer status.
Can I really set my own prices?
Yes. Change them whenever. There's a floor (nothing listed at $0) and a ceiling (to block outliers). Your rating and response time affect where you show up in search — not what you're allowed to charge.
What if I've never reviewed a dating profile before?
Most of our reviewers started by giving friends feedback over brunch. We ask for a short sample review during the application to see if you can be specific. That's the whole test.
Do I need a big following?
No. Influencers do review here, but they're a minority. Most reviewers are everyday people in clear demographics. Daters often specifically look for reviewers who aren't celebrities — they want a real read from someone like who they want to match with.
Is this a job?
No. Reviewers are independent contractors. You set prices, pick hours, decline work. US reviewers get a 1099 if they cross the IRS threshold. It's closer to a side income than a job.
Ready?
The application is 10 minutes inside the RMH app. Approval in 2–5 business days.